Who Do Kids Like the Most? (Hint: It’s Not Always Who You Think)
If you’ve ever spent time around kids, you probably know this: they form favorites. Fast. Whether it’s a parent, grandparent, teacher, or even a cartoon character—kids will tell you (sometimes loudly) who they like most. And sometimes… it’s not you. 😅
So, what makes someone a child’s favorite? Why do they attach so strongly to certain people, and what does that say about what they need or love? Let’s dive into what’s really going on when a kid points at someone and says, “You’re my best friend!”
It’s All About How You Make Them Feel
At the core of it, kids are drawn to people who make them feel safe, loved, and seen. They don’t care about your job title, your fancy clothes, or how “cool” adults think you are. What they remember is how you treat them.
If you take the time to listen to their stories (even if it’s the same story about a robot 20 times), laugh at their jokes, and play with them, chances are—you’ve already won them over.
The Power of Play
Let’s be real: adults are busy. We’re doing dishes, paying bills, making dinner… but the people who stop and play? Those are the real MVPs in a kid’s world.
It’s no surprise that kids often like the parent, grandparent, or friend who gets down on the floor and plays with them. Whether it’s hide and seek, pretend tea parties, or just silly dancing, play builds trust—and memories. You don’t have to be perfect. You just have to be there.
Grandparents: The Secret Favorites?
Let’s talk about grandparents for a second. They usually have one major advantage: they’re not the ones enforcing bedtime or saying “no” to cookies before dinner. So naturally, kids love them.
But it’s more than that. Grandparents often have more patience and time, and they shower kids with love, attention, and stories. It’s no wonder many children feel extra connected to them.
That being said, not all grandparents are favorites, and that’s okay too. Like everyone else, it depends on the relationship.
Teachers and Caregivers: Quiet Heroes
Don’t underestimate how much of an impact teachers, babysitters, and daycare staff have on kids. These are the people who often spend hours each day helping children learn, grow, and feel secure away from home.
Kids can form strong bonds with teachers because they see them as trusted guides and safe adults. If your child talks about their favorite teacher all the time, it means that person is doing something right.
Siblings and Friends: Built-In Favorites
Sometimes the people kids like the most are their siblings—or that one neighborhood friend they talk about 24/7. These relationships can be full of ups and downs, but when it’s good, it’s really good.
Kids love having someone close to their own age who “gets” them, plays the same way, and shares their wild imagination. And sure, they may fight like cats and dogs some days, but that doesn’t mean they don’t adore each other the next.
What If You’re Not the Favorite?
This one’s for the parents who feel a little left out sometimes (been there). Maybe your child runs to your partner first, or talks about Grandma like she’s a superhero.
It’s okay. Seriously.
Kids go through phases. Who they connect with most can change based on mood, age, and even what kind of day they’ve had. What matters most is consistency. Keep showing up, being kind, and making time—even if you’re not the “favorite” today.
Spoiler alert: You probably are in ways they haven’t figured out how to say yet.
Final Thought
So, who do kids like the most? It’s not the flashiest or funniest person. It’s the one who shows up, who listens, who laughs, and who loves them just as they are. If you’re doing that—you’re already their favorite in the ways that truly count.
Never jump on conclusion.
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